I wanted to write a quick article on a subject I get asked about all the time. How to go from getting the number, to getting a date.

Now the in thing to do is to call or text your new interest up and say something like this "Hey, Becky. I'm going out to a movie on Saturday, you should come along." Now this style has some pro's and some con's to look at. It's good that your coming from a mindset that you believe she's going to say yes, in sales this is called "assuming the sale". People tend to follow, this is especially true when they perceive the leader to be certain. The other part of this approach that is excellent is that your not blowing things out of proportion. There is no reason to make a big deal out of a date, especially early on. Keep the asking casual and keep the date casual... save the more serious stuff for when your more serious about eachother.More...

Alright everyone I know it's been a little while. I have been working day and night to get my latest book released. The book is Facebook Superstar. In this book I teach "sphere of influence game"... I teach you how to build up a big sphere of women (50+), yes I actually teach you how it's done. I noticed that many many dating coaches tell you how great it is to have a big group of female friends because of the rockstar style social proof it brings, but no one seems to tell you how you actually go about building that, so I decided to. Also I go over how to use Facebook to manage, leverage and build up your group even more. I also teach the real reason why spheres of influence can be so powerful... referrals. In this book I go over how I leverage my sphere of influence and get my girls to set me up with around 10 new women a month without me really having to do much of anything.

To learn more about Facebook Superstar visit http://www.facebooksuperstar.com

May, 29, 1953-
Today a Edmund Hillary shy unassuming beekeeper from New Zealand stands at the top of the world. As he looks out into the distance from the 29,028 ft summit, it begins to set in. They have done it, they  are the first to climb to the peak of Mount Everest. Hillary looks over to the man who he most certainly could not have done it without, his guide a Nepali-Indian Sherpa by the name of Tenzing Norgay and take one of the most famous pictures of the 20th century.

Life changing journeys are almost never completed alone. If we have to make all the mistakes there are to make, all the pitfalls, learn all the lessons ourselves we may not live long enough to finally get to the top of our Everest. This is why having a guide, a mentor is so vitally important.More...

How would you like to be able to recall things long lost in your memory? Languages, things you've read, things you've heard? All of those thing are still in your brain, the difficult part is trying to remember them. What if you could do that easily? What if the same techniques you used to remember things easily could be used to speed up your learning curves on new information as well? There is such a technique and it's called Lucid Dreaming.

A lucid dream is a dream in which the dreamer is aware that they are dreaming. Once someone is consciously aware that they are dreaming it then becomes possible to control the dream... think of it as your all access pass to your own mind. You ever had a dream that was so real you almost couldn't believe it wasn't when you woke up? It's like that, except you can do whatever you want.
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Alright guys,

I am opening up the master class. The registration will be open to the first 50 members for free to kick things off... So now is your chance to get coaching with me at no charge. Also sadly I will not be taking on any new 1 on 1 students at the current time... If you still wish to recieve 1 on 1 coaching on the phone or in person then you can let me know as I am starting a waiting list. The URL to signup for the Mastery Class is http://sq1coaching.com/mastery/

Another article that I wrote for the website www.onlinedatingtips.com. This one is all about the types of picture you should and shouldn't use on an online dating profile and why you should or shouldn't use them.

Check it out: Online Dating Profile Tips

The problem with most "inner game" posts is they are incomplete. They're mostly just people parroting each other. You have the 2 main sides here, the group who try to attain confidence by just thinking it to be so, focusing on it, wanting it... Then you have the other side who thinks that gaining experience is the way... In reality these are both incomplete and both at least partially incorrect.

The process to change is simple:
Decide what you want
Figure out whats currently stopping you from getting it
Build sufficient leverage to spur action (motivation)
Take action
Develop action plan
Condition until permanent (experience)

Now obviously you need to have both schools of thought to truly improve... but here's the kicker... Leaving part of the plan out and it will fail you. Leave out the experience and it will fail you today (you'll never get there), leave out the setup and it will fail you tomorrow (You'll revert to your old ways).
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Heres the second article in my "Get The Girl" series posted over at one of my other projects www.onlinedatingtips.com.

“It is only at the first encounter that a face makes its full impression on us.” - Arthur Schopenhauer
 
Say, your out some place and you see a woman you would very much like to meet… what do you do? How do you go about making that all important first impression and hopefully strike up a nice conversation? Well in this article we will explore some tips that will help you to increase your chances of just that!

Get The Girl 102- The Approach

Alright guys, heres a link to a post on my new project site. It's part of my primer on how to get women, this episode of the series is all about the "nice guy/bad boy paradigm":

New Article: http://onlinedatingtips.com/get-the-girl-101-nice-guys-bad-boys/

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First things first... because its the easiest part for me to get to the core of, and because in our male populations eyes and in some females eyes as well it's the first item of importance.... we come to purely physical attraction.

Now when it comes to physical attraction there are 2 predominant schools of thought:

A) Everyone is a 10 aka we are all equal but different
B) No one is a 10 aka we are all different and thus not equal

Now I would say that neither of these schools of thought are incorrect, or correct as they are... simply incomplete. Everyone has differing "tastes" based off of a blend oh biological and social influences on their lives. Hence a girl I consider a "9" or really smokin' hot you may consider to be only marginally attractive and vice versa. (Duh!)

Yeah yeah thats great Dave, but wtf does this have to do with finding that secret key, that elusive why? In a word... everything.
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