by DavidHart
11. May 2010 16:51
I wanted to write a quick article on a subject I get asked about all the time. How to go from getting the number, to getting a date.
Now the in thing to do is to call or text your new interest up and say something like this "Hey, Becky. I'm going out to a movie on Saturday, you should come along." Now this style has some pro's and some con's to look at. It's good that your coming from a mindset that you believe she's going to say yes, in sales this is called "assuming the sale". People tend to follow, this is especially true when they perceive the leader to be certain. The other part of this approach that is excellent is that your not blowing things out of proportion. There is no reason to make a big deal out of a date, especially early on. Keep the asking casual and keep the date casual... save the more serious stuff for when your more serious about eachother.More...
by DavidHart
4. May 2010 06:03
Alright everyone I know it's been a little while. I have been working day and night to get my latest book released. The book is Facebook Superstar. In this book I teach "sphere of influence game"... I teach you how to build up a big sphere of women (50+), yes I actually teach you how it's done. I noticed that many many dating coaches tell you how great it is to have a big group of female friends because of the rockstar style social proof it brings, but no one seems to tell you how you actually go about building that, so I decided to. Also I go over how to use Facebook to manage, leverage and build up your group even more. I also teach the real reason why spheres of influence can be so powerful... referrals. In this book I go over how I leverage my sphere of influence and get my girls to set me up with around 10 new women a month without me really having to do much of anything.
To learn more about Facebook Superstar visit http://www.facebooksuperstar.com
by DavidHart
6. April 2010 15:33
May, 29, 1953-
Today a Edmund Hillary shy unassuming beekeeper from New Zealand stands at the top of the world. As he looks out into the distance from the 29,028 ft summit, it begins to set in. They have done it, they are the first to climb to the peak of Mount Everest. Hillary looks over to the man who he most certainly could not have done it without, his guide a Nepali-Indian Sherpa by the name of Tenzing Norgay and take one of the most famous pictures of the 20th century.
Life changing journeys are almost never completed alone. If we have to make all the mistakes there are to make, all the pitfalls, learn all the lessons ourselves we may not live long enough to finally get to the top of our Everest. This is why having a guide, a mentor is so vitally important.More...
by DavidHart
26. March 2010 18:06
Another article that I wrote for the website www.onlinedatingtips.com. This one is all about the types of picture you should and shouldn't use on an online dating profile and why you should or shouldn't use them.
Check it out: Online Dating Profile Tips
by DavidHart
26. March 2010 17:58
Heres the second article in my "Get The Girl" series posted over at one of my other projects www.onlinedatingtips.com.
“It is only at the first encounter that a face makes its full impression on us.” - Arthur Schopenhauer
Say, your out some place and you see a woman you would very much like to meet… what do you do? How do you go about making that all important first impression and hopefully strike up a nice conversation? Well in this article we will explore some tips that will help you to increase your chances of just that!
Get The Girl 102- The Approach
by DavidHart
26. March 2010 17:57
Alright guys, heres a link to a post on my new project site. It's part of my primer on how to get women, this episode of the series is all about the "nice guy/bad boy paradigm":
New Article: http://onlinedatingtips.com/get-the-girl-101-nice-guys-bad-boys/
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by DavidHart
26. March 2010 17:49
First things first... because its the easiest part for me to get to the core of, and because in our male populations eyes and in some females eyes as well it's the first item of importance.... we come to purely physical attraction.
Now when it comes to physical attraction there are 2 predominant schools of thought:
A) Everyone is a 10 aka we are all equal but different
B) No one is a 10 aka we are all different and thus not equal
Now I would say that neither of these schools of thought are incorrect, or correct as they are... simply incomplete. Everyone has differing "tastes" based off of a blend oh biological and social influences on their lives. Hence a girl I consider a "9" or really smokin' hot you may consider to be only marginally attractive and vice versa. (Duh!)
Yeah yeah thats great Dave, but wtf does this have to do with finding that secret key, that elusive why? In a word... everything.
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by DavidHart
26. March 2010 17:46
John: Dance?
Diana: I should go.
John: I remember once when I was young, and I was coming back from some place, a movie or something. I was on the subway and there was a girl sitting across from me and she was wearing this dress that was bottoned clear up right to here, she was the most beautiful thing I've ever seen. And I was shy then, so when she would look at me I would look away, then afterwards when I would look back she would look away. Then I got to where I was gonna get off, and got off, the doors closed, and as the train was pulling away she looked right at me and gave me the most incredible smile. It was awful, I wanted to tear the doors open. And I went back every night, same time, for two weeks, but she never showed up. That was 30 years ago and I don't think that theres a day that goes by that I don't think about her, I don't want that to happen again. Just one dance?
-Excerpt from the movie "Indecent Proposal"
by DavidHart
26. March 2010 17:24
Pacing is a method used to build wide rappore quickly and also to gain compliance and leadership over the conversation. This technique is not based on the words either of you are speaking... but rather subconcious connection and a 'merging' of energy fields.
There are two primary aspects to pacing, body language and verbal pacing. Body language can be broken down into two equally important parts... positioning and energy. Verbal pacing can be broken down similiarly, into tonality and tempo.
Yeah, yeah thats great Dave, you may be saying to yourself... "but how does all this technical mumbo-jumbo help me?". Easily! We use pacing in two stages (see a pattern here?) Mirroring, and leading.
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by DavidHart
26. March 2010 14:07
What is it that truly causes women to be attracted to men? Money, looks, assertiveness, confidence, humor, social proof, sexual prowess, power, prominence, fame? No... it's none of these things, these are symptoms of the true values that are attractive. Is your arm broken because it hurts... or does it hurt because it's broken? The true values that create attraction are the causes, not the symptoms. The true values are being centered, passionate, driven and being able to achieve what you set out to do... being a true closer. Also there is good news... the causes... are easier to develop in yourself then the symptoms are anyway... and as a direct result of enstilling these root values the others, the symptoms, will naturally mature and present themselves.
"Yeah, oh-kay cool Doc... but how do I get started developing these qualities in myself?" You may be wondering now... Well my friend I'm glad you asked. You must discover and then work to become your ideal you.
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